For Christmas one of my
daughters received a children's pottery wheel from her grandparents. Both of my girls
were very excited to use it and make a little pot. It took some time, but soon
enough my girls had learned how to press on the clay and shape it as is spun
one the wheel. As I helped them and watched their little hands shaping the clay
I couldn't help but think of the analogy taught in the church of the Potter and
the Clay.
There were some instructions
that came with this little pottery wheel.
They were pretty basic and easy to follow. The first step was to squeeze and squish the clay a bit in our
hands to soften it up. Amazingly, this
is where the analogy begins. Before
anything can be made of us we must soften our hearts and be willing to be
molded and shaped by The Lord, the Master Potter. If we harden our hearts and become stubborn or proud the Lord
will not be able to work with us and mold us into something better.
The second step was really
simple too, however the instructions emphasized that it was crucial this step was taken
or we wouldn't be able to progress. The
instructions stated that the softened clay MUST be placed in the CENTER of the
wheel. If it wasn't centered the clay would be
unbalanced and the force of the wheel spinning would either break the clay, or
it would be flung off the wheel. So it
is in our own lives. It is not enough
just to soften our hearts; if we do not have a Christ-centered life we will
break and be placing ourselves outside the “safety zone” of Christ’s blessings
and protection. If we have a
Christ centered life and allow ourselves to be sculpted by the trials given to
us by the Master Potter we will be strong and become a beautiful vessel that
can benefit mankind and bring joy to our maker.
The next step was where
things became a little more difficult.
This was when we needed to start applying pressure to the clay. This seems easy enough, but as we learned,
there has to be the right amount of pressure.
We needed to have a steady hand and be gentle so we didn't break our
fragile pot, but if we didn't use enough pressure the clay would not move or
change. How lucky we are to have a
Master Potter that knows exactly what we require in order to take shape and
grow.
In our instructions it told
us that there were many different shaped pots we could create depending on how
we molded the clay and which tools we used to shape it. So are we, as God’s children, capable of
being many different things. And
just as certain types of pots or vessels have a particular purpose, so do each
of us. Heavenly Father knows from the
beginning what it is we are meant to be, what we are capable of. And it is our Loving Maker that knows just
what tools to use to change us and help shape us into who we need to be in
order to fulfill our calling and purpose in this life.
There were other things that
were necessary for us to make our little pots.
The instructions informed us that we would need to keep the clay wet
during the whole process so that our hands could slide across it. If the clay became too dry it would “snag”
on our fingers and hands, which resulted in a misshapen pot. At one point this even caused my daughter’s pot to crack and break. Like the clay we also need things that will make this sculpting
process easier, things that will help lessen the friction and pain of difficult
times. Things like prayer and scripture
study will not only help keep us centered on Christ, but will allow the Holy
Ghost to dwell with us and soothe our “snags” or rough spots.
The final step in sculpting
a clay pot is to put it in the oven or furnace and bake it so that it becomes
solid and firm. Sometimes our worst
trials are the things that make us the strongest, so long as we trust in
Heavenly Father, the Master Potter.
But now, O Lord, thou art
our father; we are the clay, and thou our potter; and we all are the work of
thy hand” (Isaiah 64:8)
And I so easily beat myself up! The pressure to write, re-write, publish, edit...it just gets to me at times. I love your line that if we are downtrodden, that's not from the Lord. Christ tells us His burden is light. If our burden is heavy....it's not from Him. I need to just keep giving things to God!
ReplyDeleteKasey, you are so right that being hard on ourselves doesn't serve any purpose. I need to get faster at picking myself up and moving on!!
ReplyDeleteI read recently that true love is seeing another's filthy heart and denying the impulse to jump ship. A little graphic, but true. AT the heart level, we are all flawed. Love stays anyway. Congrats to you niece and new hubby!
ReplyDeleteI love the Potter and the Clay analogies! Everything you wrote is so true. The softening, the centering, the shaping...and yes, the heat we must endure to be purified. I took a year and half of pottery in college because I discovered I love the wheel. I made many misshapen things! But I love them, b/c I made them, and it was hard! I now have such respect for good pottery, b/c I know the difficulty involved. What a great gift for kids!
ReplyDeleteThere was a great article in this month’s Ensign magazine in which Dieter F. Uchtdorf wrote about goals. I read it today and thought of your post- he said, "Another thing we need to remember when it comes to setting goals is this: We almost certainly will fail—at least in the short term. But rather than be discouraged, we can be empowered because this understanding removes the pressure of being perfect right now. It acknowledges from the beginning that at one time or another, we may fall short. Knowing this up front takes away much of the surprise and discouragement of failure.
ReplyDeleteWhen we approach our goals this way, failure doesn’t have to limit us. Remember, even if we fail to reach our ultimate, desired destination right away, we will have made progress along the road that will lead to it.
And that matters—it means a lot.
Even though we might fall short of our finish line, just continuing the journey will make us greater than we were before.”
(http://www.lds.org/ensign/2014/01/the-best-time-to-plant-a-tree?lang=eng)
This. is. AWESOME. What a beautiful analogy- all things in this world truly testify of Him, and you did a lovely job connecting these things. Thanks for this inspirational post!
ReplyDelete‘Commitment’ has almost become like a bad word in our society these days. Everybody wants to be free, free, free.
ReplyDeleteThe most powerful thing that has helped me when my husband and I are in those “for worse” places is remembering the feeling I had when I prayed about who to marry. When things get tough I remember that the Lord wanted me to marry my husband. And He wouldn’t have told me that if He hadn’t intended it to be forever. So when he drives me crazy, I know it just means God wants me to learn something, because the only person I can control is myself.
Thanks for this wonderful post!
Yeah a good marriage takes work, it is so easy for so many to walk away when things get rough, not me I have stuck it out and Tim and I are still in love after 29 years of marriage
ReplyDeleteCongrats, that is wonderful!
ReplyDeleteThanks for coming back to add this, Kasey. Very insightful. It's true that even though we have not met a goal - we are usually farther along the path. And that's surely been true with my book. Another friend recently told me that we're all really working on God's timeline anyway. :-) Our little deadlines are so small compared to God's broader perspective.
ReplyDeleteOh how damn cute, and this brings back memories of my lame attempts at making pottery when I was a girl
ReplyDeleteOk I am still a girl but you know what I meant a little girl not a big fat middle aged girl
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